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controlling relationship
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Weaponized Incompetence as a Tool of Control in Abusive Relationships
Weaponized incompetence is a deliberate tactic in which individuals pretend they cannot perform tasks adequately, forcing their partners to assume those responsibilities. This behavior...
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He Tried to Annihilate Her Spirit, But She Broke Free (Video)
Anna Pinkerton thought she had found the love she’d been longing for—a relationship that felt like fate. She initially thought of him as a...
Articles
How Abusers Withhold Affection to Maintain Control
Withholding affection—also referred to as emotional withholding—is a subtle but damaging practice, which when used intentionally and consistently, is a form of emotional abuse....
Stories
Setting Boundaries with a Narcissist: How I Stopped Letting My Ex Control My Choices
Nearly a year after I left my ex, a friend invited me along to visit New York with her. When my ex found out...
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Triangulation in Abusive Relationships: How Abusers Use Others to Exert Control
Abusive relationships often involve much more than physical violence. Coercive control is a particularly insidious form of abuse, where one partner exercises dominance over...
Stories
The Story of Nicola Hanney: From Coercive Control to Justice
Dublin woman Nicola Hanney endured a four-year campaign of abuse and coercive control by her former partner, Garda officer Paul Moody. Their relationship, which...
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Boundaries vs. Control: Navigating the Fine Line in Relationships
Boundaries are the personal guidelines and needs that outline what you are and aren’t willing to accept in a relationship. Their purpose is to...
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20 Survivors Share Why Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t as Easy as People Think
Victims of domestic abuse are often asked, “Why don’t you just leave?” This question fails to acknowledge the complex dynamics of abusive relationships and...