Wednesday, April 2, 2025

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Coercive Control, Rules, and the Micromanagement of Daily Life

One of the common features of coercive control in relationships is the relentless micromanagement of everyday life—strict rules, limitations, and expectations that govern a...

Weaponized Incompetence as a Tool of Control in Abusive Relationships

Weaponized incompetence is a deliberate tactic in which individuals pretend they cannot perform tasks adequately, forcing their partners to assume those responsibilities. This behavior...

How Abusers Withhold Affection to Maintain Control

Withholding affection—also referred to as emotional withholding—is a subtle but damaging practice, which when used intentionally and consistently, is a form of emotional abuse....

Substance Use Coercion: A Hidden Form of Abuse and Control

Substance use coercion is a form of abuse in which an individual manipulates or controls their partner's use of substances, often as part of...

Survivors Share the Worst Excuses Abusers Use for Their Behavior

Domestic abuse takes many forms, and those who experience it often endure not just physical or emotional harm, but also a constant barrage of...

Evading Responsibility: Blame Shifting in Abusive Relationships

Blame shifting is a manipulative tactic commonly used by abusers to evade responsibility for their harmful actions and behaviors. This psychological defense mechanism allows...

Stealing Joy: How Abusers Strip Victims of Their Hobbies and Talents

Abusive relationships often revolve around control, and for many victims, that control extends to their hobbies and talents. Abusers can subtly, or not so...

How Future Faking Traps Victims in Toxic Relationships

Psychological manipulation takes many forms, and one particularly harmful tactic is known as "future faking." Narcissists and other abusive individuals use this subtle yet...