Friday, November 22, 2024

Articles

What Abusers Want Their Partners to Sacrifice For Them

Abusive relationships often operate on control, manipulation, and sacrifice—though not sacrifices that are mutually made for the benefit of the relationship. Instead, these sacrifices...

How Coercive Control Destroys Your Sense of Self and Identity

Your identity is your sense of who you are. The essence of you. It’s all the things that make up the unique human you...

Double Standards: How Unequal Expectations Fuel Abusive Dynamics

Double standards occur when unequal rules and expectations are unfairly imposed on someone. In abusive relationships, double standards are more than just unfair—they’re a...

Religious Abuse in Relationships: How Faith Can be Weaponized for Control

Religious abuse in relationships is a manipulative tactic used by abusers to exert control over their partners, often distorting faith-based teachings and practices for...

Medical Neglect in Abusive Relationships: A Silent Form of Abuse

Medical neglect is a form of abuse that often goes unnoticed but has devastating consequences for the victim. This type of neglect involves withholding...

The Role of Story Telling in Recovery from Abuse and Trauma

I am a mental health nurse. I currently work in a community setting on the south coast of NSW, Australia. While it is place...

The Response Trap: Why Reacting to Abusers Fuels Their Control 

“You’re crazy! You need psychological help! “You’re too unstable to be a mother. I’m going to court to take the kids away from you!” Most...

Boundaries vs. Control: Navigating the Fine Line in Relationships

Boundaries are the personal guidelines and needs that outline what you are and aren’t willing to accept in a relationship. Their purpose is to...