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coercive control
Articles
Systems Abuse: Exploitation of Legal and Institutional Systems to Control Victims
Systems abuse is an abuser's calculated use of legal, bureaucratic, and institutional structures to control, intimidate, and harass their victims. Abusers exploit the very...
Articles
50 Common Gaslighting Phrases and What They Really Mean
Gaslighting is among the most deceptive forms of manipulation. It happens when an abuser systematically erodes your sense of reality, creating confusion and self-doubt....
Video
A New Beginning: Escaping Domestic Abuse in Later Life (Video)
Despite the family’s polished exterior, the reality inside Mary Lou’s home was defined by fear and control, and the painful experience of abuse in...
Articles
Coercive Control, Rules, and the Micromanagement of Daily Life
One of the common features of coercive control in relationships is the relentless micromanagement of everyday life—strict rules, limitations, and expectations that govern a...
Articles
Weaponized Incompetence as a Tool of Control in Abusive Relationships
Weaponized incompetence is a deliberate tactic in which individuals pretend they cannot perform tasks adequately, forcing their partners to assume those responsibilities. This behavior...
Video
He Tried to Annihilate Her Spirit, But She Broke Free (Video)
Anna Pinkerton thought she had found the love she’d been longing for—a relationship that felt like fate. She initially thought of him as a...
Stories
Setting Boundaries with a Narcissist: How I Stopped Letting My Ex Control My Choices
Nearly a year after I left my ex, a friend invited me along to visit New York with her. When my ex found out...
Articles
Substance Use Coercion: A Hidden Form of Abuse and Control
Substance use coercion is a form of abuse in which an individual manipulates or controls their partner's use of substances, often as part of...